Start Winning Now
Oct 22, 2025
In a world where everyone is constantly plugged in, it's easy to scroll through highlight reels on social media or compare ourselves to someone else’s best moments. It's also easy to feel like we’re not doing enough or that we are falling behind or that somehow we aren't measuring up and that we are failures to some degree.
But what God's got for you.. Is for you!
But here’s something you may not hear enough and that you might need to remind yourself of daily. You are doing a phenomenal job. Right now, and exactly where you are.
You’ve likely overcame things you didn't give yourself enough credit for, or you’ve shown up on days you didn’t feel like it, still with a smile on your face. You’ve done hard things, and yet you're still standing. That matters, and that truly counts for something!
The pressure to always be achieving, improving, or leveling up, can be exhausting and while personal growth is beautiful, it should never come at the cost of believing you’re not enough as you are, or come at the cost of a good sleep in or a lazy day of Netflix and Cadbury Mini Eggs without feeling guilty or unproductive. That's because in the realm of spirit, you already have everything, and chasing it, or still trying to achieve it will only keep what you want at a distance.
That's also a clear indication you've got some healing left to do to feel worthy enough to rest and receive without feeling like you need to earn it.
So today take a moment to appreciate how far you've come. Not the filtered or perfect version of success you see online, but the real, raw, hair in a mess, oversized sweats, no make up on, fresh out of bed gorgeous look. Take a minute to close your eyes and just remind yourself of the progress you’ve made in your own life. Every small step forward, every quiet win, every time you chose to keep going when it would have been easier to quit, that’s worth celebrating.
It's easy to be happy when you are winning in life.
But what happens when you're not?
What happens when it's a dark season, or you just feel so lost, alone, scared, frustrated, sad or afraid?
Well for some they will just pull the covers over their head and do absolutely nothing.
The warriors however, will get up, get dressed, pray, meditate, stay in perfect peace, keep going and have a calm and confident energy knowing that all is well.
If you think life is meant to be "easy" and without struggle you've got another thing coming for you because when you're on path to purpose struggle is actually how you build your strength, courage, and confidence and intense pressure and heat is what creates diamonds.
Life will sometimes slam you, break you, rip your heart apart, test your faith, and then leave you alone in the dark for a little while so you can figure things out and find out what you are truly made of.
So 3 tips today.
1. Hold On. This too shall pass and you must believe that whatever you are dealing with right now will all serve a purpose. You won't see it until you're on the other side, so just keep going and let God explain it later.
2. Take care of yourself. No really, have fun and do everything in your power to feel good. Instead of focusing more on what's happening around you, or what your problem is, use this as an opportunity to love yourself more, eat better, slow down, workout, go to the spa, update your wardrobe, take a vacation, go on dates with your spouse, take a nap, remove toxic people from your life, organize your home, get rid of clutter or things that are not coming with you in the next season of your life, stay off social media and surround yourself with loving, positive people.
3. Focus Forward. Don't keep rehashing what's wrong with you or what happened. Sure we must reflect, grieve, cry tears if necessary, and turn inward to see if we caused the problem, then change our behaviours, but stop focusing your time and energy on the problem. Focus on the solution. Focus on what your next move will be. Focus on where you are going, want you want, and what you are going to do today to create something magical in your life.
You are the creator of your own reality, so stop telling yourself the story you are telling yourself right now and create a new one.
...A story that ends happily ever after.
...A story that excites you to wake up every day.
...A story where you have the victory.
...A story where you live your life happy, healthy, and free.
Have the most beautiful day today!
xo
Lindsay
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Sooner or later it just becomes easier to just be who you are instead of trying to be someone you're not. Real transformation isn't about being someone different, or aiming to be someone better. Real transformation is coming home to yourself and a remembering. It's like peeling all the layers away and removing what's not really you, so you can get to the really good stuff that's been there the entire time
